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8月25日 WINSTON GEORGE TANNIS ON 'STALKING'I recently reviewed a program on stalking in North America,
with a focus on the Canadian stalking problem, with a number
of women constituting victims alongside men. It is a
frightening phenomenon which the police are learning to
cope with as they learn more about the profiles of stalkers
and the impacts on family units.
It is not only public personalities who face such, but regular
citizens who are equally intimidated and harassed and
framed and wrongfully accused.
I can share some of the 'safety plan' elements, which I
have employed for myself and recommended to clients.
Note that these kinds of offenders, when they feel
slighted, may take on aggressive tactics like claiming
legal wrongs, setting off 'racist packs' and even
threatening physical harm. The offender's sense of
innocence and normalcy loses perspective - no longer
perceiving the lines of detachment that have been
drawn by the person stalked.
The slighted party will even try to use the police to
participate in the stalk, to save face. This said line is
both objective and subjective. It is objective in that
it is based on the real dynamics of the particular
interactions, and it is subjective in that the victim's
very individual response and responses are important.
I can easily sympathize with the victims since I am
dealing with similarly minded offenders at a number
of public institutions at present, whose perverse
machiavellian manoeuvres bewilder the mind, but
are real, aggressive, even violent using a variety
of agents.
Often times, an unintended slight can set this chain
off. For example, an employer points to employment
opportunities available in his organization rather
than responding to more personal suggestions for
a relationship. This is a challenge for many emplo-
yers or prospective employers and must be handled
with due care.
The offender must learn to control obsession, slight
and better cope with senses of, feeling slighted or
lesser.
This television program covered the story of a
handsome University swim coach wrongfully
accused of date rape by an aggressive female
student. I could sympathize with this since a
University of Ottawa set of persons, worried
about their relative poorer qualifications have
been caught setting off their harassment system
against a world leading scholastic-professional
contributor while also conniving with mischiefous
and sadly envy-driven family members to bolster
the fraud being perpetuated.
As one expert psychologist put it - the behaviour
can become vengeful and ruthless, like vandalism,
destruction of property and slander campaigns.
Securing a criminal conviction is not always
easy, but it is possible and a criminal harassment
stigma is not a light minded matter.
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